The different opinion was a result of individual definition what is over-inflating. By car manufacturer recommendation or by tyre specification.
I agree there will be uneven wear due to non optimum setting for any product but we have to be practical. You notice the design different for car tyre and motorcycle tyre? The cross section shape is different. IMO, car tyre have ticker, harder and flatter rubber on the road contact side thus have the resistance to flex at that section that cause centre of your tyres wear out faster.
When you pump more or pump much less, you first notice the side wall change shape much obvious than the flat contact point right? Say the centre part will bulge and wear out to an extent, but by how much? Just look at your own old tyre when you change them. If centre part wears more, ok you really over-inflate; if side wear out more, ok you can pump more; if you still have thread all over, then don